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What do you understand about this quote?
"Others must lose to win."
You understand this quote when you are in a position where others must lose for you to win.
What is your position?
You are winning by achieving everything you want which does not require you to make others to lose.
You are losing by failing to achieve everything you want which requires you to make others to lose.
So, you must make others lose to achieve everything you want.
Here is an example.
Suppose you need a higher income to achieve everything you want. However, you have physical traits limiting you income, which defines how much money you get in a given time period.
These physical traits limit your income by limiting either
- who you can ask for money (where everyone can win),
- and who can give you money (where everyone can win),
- but not who you can take money from without asking (which causes the other person to lose).
So, your physical traits limit your income and prevent you from winning when you must
- use money as a tool to achieve your objective
- and the money you need within a given time period is higher than your income
unless you make others lose by taking their money.
This example places you in a position where others must lose because you cannot win without making others lose
- when their objectives are the same as yours
- and their limits are also the same as yours.
The quote is applicable to this example because others must lose for you to win. There is not a state of energy where you win unless others lose.
You must make others lose to get what you want.
What is an example of a position where this quote applies?
Scenario: Sleeping Outside on Private Land
You wake up to police ordering you to move outside an area you sleep in because
- Others who own the land do not want you there.
- Others who sleep in the area became visible (by litering).
- Landlords push their agenda to force everyone into a house.
You cannot only sleep outside on any land to win in this scenario.
You must also
- disregard what the land owners want and sleep on the land, which makes them to lose in their objective to remove you from the land.
- remove nuisances sleeping on the land who result in enforcement of land, which makes the nuisances lose when they cannot sleep in the area they wanted to sleep in.
- remove the rules or enforcement employed by lords of the land, which causes them to lose in their objective to remove you from the land.
Others must lose for you to win by achieving your objective of sleeping outside on a private property.
Scenario: Eating Free Food
You lose time when a woman is prioritized to eat food which is provided without a monetary cost. So, your food is not free unless you remove this gender prioritization.
Gender priotization biased towards a woman is equivalent to prostitution because
- Prostitution results in men giving women their money which reduces a state's capacity for violence.
- Prioritizing a woman's time over a man's time results in women having more time to operate than men, and this result reduces a state's capacity for violence at the macrolevel unless women are operating by reproducing more men with a capacity for violence.
Gender prioritization is enforced by a group's capacity for violence.
So, you cannot only eat free food to continue to eat free food. You must also
- increase your capacity for violence and enforce it over others so they continue to give you free food, which makes them lose their food.
- eliminate gender priotization or women's social preference dominance over you which makes certain women lose in their objectives.
Scenario: Consensual Reproduction
You are not having sexual intercourse with women because
- women who have sex using sexual attraction thresholds do not find you sexually attractive enough to perform sexual intercourse.
- women who have sex using provisional attraction thresholds with sexual attraction floors ask you for more resources than you have, which is required from them before they determine whether your sexual attraction is above their sexual attraction floor required for sexual intercourse.
Suppose you are not sexually attractive enough to have sex with women who only use sexual attraction thresholds.
So, there are women who will have sex with you when you have enough social favor, but you must provide them with this social favor before they consider sex with you.
You must either accept this position and lose when you do not have enough money to have sex with these women.
or
You must make others lose their money to have sex with these women by taking their money, when you do not have enough money by asking.
The quote does not apply to a person in a position where they do not have to make others lose to have sex.
Here is another explanation of this scenario.
Society put you in a position where you cannot have sex unless others lose their money and likely their opportunity for sex when they lose their money. So, you cannot have win unless others lose what they want.
The quote applies to you because you must make others lose to win.